i know of at least one person who i consider a friend (yes, shared my share of cuddles and hang times with and who i've know for almost 6 years) who was badmouthed on there.

the entire community - sadly, i suppose - has been colored by that experience.

anonymity is fine and dandy. but if your reason to be anonymous is to squee about random shit... then sorry you don't have that opportunity to squee with your name attached to it?

but to each their own.