I the two different journals separate too! Saves a lot of hassle, I think, for both groups of friends. :P

You're really right about the putting yourself out there. Sucks, but true. I like the idea of a place where there is minimal stigma attached to expressing an opinion, but I guess as with all such things, the room for abuse is limitless.

The drama is all such a waste of time. And exhausting. I totally get you on that one.