It sucks when shitty people are shitty friends. I guess one of the reasons that it is hard for me to wrap my head around why people don't like it is that I've never ever ever had something like that happen to me, so I keep getting DOES NOT COMPUTE when I think about that kind of shit.
Well, I keep trying to write these epic comments explaining how I conceptualize friendship and relationships and internet interaction, which I'm pretty sure are tl;dr. Suffice it to say, I believe you don't talk smack about your friends (especially not anywhere they could see it), and when it comes down to it, if I'm getting smack-talked and Friend says they weren't doing it, I believe them. ;_; I feel so naive and shit when it comes to this. On the other hand, I've never really trusted anyone I met over the internet with anything OMGHUGE either.
I guess I don't really expect everyone to like each other, and the only parts of that comm that I've seen seem to fall into that category rather than the hate-mongering. But I can see where it would make people nervous.
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Date: 2008-06-11 04:49 am (UTC)Well, I keep trying to write these epic comments explaining how I conceptualize friendship and relationships and internet interaction, which I'm pretty sure are tl;dr. Suffice it to say, I believe you don't talk smack about your friends (especially not anywhere they could see it), and when it comes down to it, if I'm getting smack-talked and Friend says they weren't doing it, I believe them. ;_; I feel so naive and shit when it comes to this. On the other hand, I've never really trusted anyone I met over the internet with anything OMGHUGE either.
I guess I don't really expect everyone to like each other, and the only parts of that comm that I've seen seem to fall into that category rather than the hate-mongering. But I can see where it would make people nervous.